Thursday, January 10, 2013

No Sit for Free

"Let's just get a quick drink after dinner"

It was like music to my ears.  We had 7 hours of class earlier that day, had trekked across Bangkok, and had finally wrapped up a long group dinner.

It was those words that eventually lead Marsh, Matt, Kristina, and I down the streets of Bangkok, down a flight of stairs, and straight into what we thought was a bar.  A bar that doesn't exactly sell drinks.  It was those words, "let's just get a quick drink after dinner" that led us straight into a prostitute ring.

Yes, you read that right.  And yes - I mean a literal "ring" of prostitutes.  Down a flight of stairs, under a hotel somewhere in the east side of Bangkok, we walked into a bar with one long table in the middle.  Only a few people were sitting at the table, and along all three of the walls, girls were lined shoulder to shoulder.  Just standing, not talking (hence the "ring" of prostitutes).

Let me back up.

Once upon a time, in a land far away, I arrived in Bangkok.  I thought I would see beaches, natural beauty, elephants.  I thought I would eat spicy Pad Thai.  Being my naive self, I didn't hear about all that Bangkok is known for really until I got here.  Fortunately, it's not too hard to avoid.

Anyway - on with the story.  Matt, Marsh, Kristina, and I were boppin around Bangkok after this big group dinner.  We saw a swanky hotel, and obviously believed we would fit in there.  Went all the way to the top and found their rooftop bar (starting to discover these are pretty popular here on top of nice hotels).  Since we weren't quite as swanky as we thought, we got kicked out because Kristina and I were wearing flip flops.  I'm sure it was more than just the flip flops though... I didn't exactly pack the cutest clothes or a lot of make up for this trip....

We kept wandering, and stumbled on a bar that looked more our speed.  It had an outdoor deck, rugged wooden chairs, and some pool tables inside.  Bush Gardens Bar was the right amount of "dive-y" given what we were looking for.

We sat down for some Singha beers.  Took lots of photos.  Laughed really loud.  Absolutely reinforced everyone's ideas of the "American tourist."  About an hour into this, our people watching really picked up.  It was Kristina who started noticing quite a few single girls just standing around outside on the sidewalk.  They weren't scantily clad.  They weren't walking up to people.  But, somehow Kristina got the notion in her head that these girls juuuust may be soliciting themselves.

Again, being my naive self, I obviously dismissed this.  I mean, wouldn't they be wearing fishnet stockings?

Well, then people watching really started picking up.  Every 5-10 minutes, a guy and girl would emerge from a staircase leading below street level.  They'd head straight for a cab or around the corner.  Clearly, we had to dig into this further.  We sent Marsh down these steps (video-taping him from afar on the way down).

On his return, he said, "it's a ring of girls, just lined up along the walls."  WHAT?!

We all walked down there.  Cameras were NOT allowed.  There was a police standing by the door.  These people have this routine down.

This brings me back to the beginning - we had walked into the bar with one table in the middle and girls lining the wall.  Just staring at you.  They weren't aggressive.  The just stood there.

We only wanted to stay  for 5 minutes.  Because of my old lady knees, Kristina and I went to go sit down at that long table.  As soon as my behind had hit the stool, a guy that appeared to be the owner ran up shouting, "drink, drink, what you want to drink?"   We were pretty overwhelmed and tuckered out, so we declined his offer.... which was then followed by him saying "then you leave!  No sit for free!"

Well - kicked out of another bar.  Two bars in one night.....



Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Out for Dinner

At the undergrad dining hall

Twins for the Night

The BTS (Skytrain) is so clean!
Romantic Dinner.... with 12 other people



Kellogg Crew

The Man that Went Mising

Yep, we saw it.  The world renowned Jim Thompson Thai Silk Company.  Not falling out of your seat in jealousy?  Never heard of it?
"Pre-silk"

.... Neither had we.  

We kind of stumbled upon it when we were trying to figure out what was withing walking distance of our business school and student housing.  Beyond a mall and some cute boutique shopping areas, this was really all we found.  

I know this doesn't need any further explanation  but I'm a nerd.  So, at the sound of stumbling on a traditional Thai house - home of the guy that is known for his silks - made my little ears perk up.  They really only perked up though, because I thought we'd be able to hit up a tour of a silk factory!  After which, I obviously thought I was going to be buying some great scarves.

The Jim Thompson House really just ended up being a house.  We overpaid the $100 bht to get in, but went straight to the fancy bar for a pitcher of Singh rather than joining the next tour.   We did eventually make it to the tour - just had to hydrate first.

Sketchy walk... ending at the Thompson House
Learning about Thompson ended up being pretty cool - he was out there representing America well, which started the tour off on the right foot for me.

He was from Delaware, went to Princeton, was an architect, volunteered for the Army, got assigned to the Office of Strategic Services (which they said kind of pre-ceded the CIA.... need to read more on that), but never saw action due to the war ending.  He'd already been able to travel all over though, so opted to head back to Thailand and set up shop as a silk maker.  Not a bad life decision, there, buddy.

Only about 8 years after moving there, he took a vacation to Malaysia.  Went out for a morning walk.... never to return again.  They have no clue what happened to him.




We're still deciding if we now cross Malaysia off our travel list..... or go sleuthing.... find some Thompson clues, and get our pictures put up in the Thai Thompson Museum.....

http://www.jimthompsonhouse.com/life/index.asp



Flowers outside the house

Just what we needed before the tour

Wall decorations


First Day of School

Charged my computer.  Packed up my bag.  Laid out my outfit.  Set my alarm.  It was the night before the first day of school.  

Sadly, I do not have many more "first days of school" left.  Even half-way around the world, the routine the night before is the same, though.

Sasin Graduate Business School
Today, our UNC crew had class 8:30am - 12noon and then again 1pm - 4:30pm.  It has not even been two years, but I feel so far removed from my former 'work life' that the thought of sitting in class.... even just sitting down.... for seven hours at first sounded like it was going to be touuugh. 

We had "ROI in Human Capital" and "Investments" today - both of which were pleasant surprises to my first thoughts of seven hours of class.  The Human Capital class is taught by an American woman, and was heavily discussion based.  The Investments class was hard to follow at times (the professor is Thai and has a decently heavy accent), but at least today was just a review of what we had learned in our core finance classes in school.

The most interesting part of class was being introduced to the Thai students.  Sasin is Thailand's first accredited business school - and only has 70 students per class!  All of the classes are taught in English, even though English is not the first language of the students.  

My investments class was too big for everyone to introduce themselves, but in the Human Capital class... every single Thai student (well, with the exception of one guy) is working for his/her family business after they graduate this year.  Students' families ran businesses in:
  • Gold
  • Auto parts
  • Real estate
  • Herbal medicine
  • and some others....
It was funny, though - each of the students going back to their family business had worked in other companies between undergraduate and Sasin.  One girl even got her undergraduate degree in architecture, only practiced for a year as an architect before 'determining' that she was going to work for the family business - but went to Sasin Business School first.  If I were her - I would have skipped the architecture all together and just started designing jewelry.  When our American professor asked if she could get a discount on some gold jewelry, the girl just laughed......uncomfortably.  The professor took the question RIGHT out of my mouth.  Just because the girl (without words) said no to the discount.... my hopes are not yet crushed.  Five more weeks is plenty of time to work on this jewelry discount.  

Monday, January 7, 2013

Trip to MBK

Devoted to his Seattle heritage,
Matt found a Starbucks
You'd think that while in Bangkok, any smart and fun traveler would take some sweet trips all over Southeast Asia.

We, however, opted to start our journey in Bangkok with a trip to the big mall here.... MBK.  It's only 2 blocks away from our school and student housing, and it has 6 floors of just about anything you'd need.  Cell phones, scarves, pharmacies, McDonald's, Starbucks, and an unimaginable amount of iPhone covers.
At the food court - proof to my mom
that I'm not the tallest person
in Thailand!





Marsh, Matt, Kristina and I headed over for lunch and groceries.  Don't worry, we didn't go to McDonalds - they have a great food court with local cuisine.  Two noodle or veggie dishes + rice for only 50 baht... just over $1.50 USD.  

I know it sounds weird going to a food court while you can probably find the BEST Pad Thai in the entire world while we are here in Bangkok.  But, don't be so quick to judge!  The local food court (on the 6th floor of MBK) is known around these parts to actually serve awesome food!





The grocery store was the most exciting stop of the day.  My diet of Oreos can be sustained!!  Not only sustained, but actually enhanced.... take a closer look at that Oreo picture - they sell grape ice cream filling flavored Oreos.  Orange creamsicle, chocolate, and double stuff were also pretty popular on the shelves.

A comfort of home
Loving Thailand already...

 Although a lot of the "comforts" of home could be found (Oreos, Coke Zero, Pop Tarts), we knew we couldn't feel right about ourselves if we purchased them.... at least not the first day.  Marsh almost reached for a bottle of Milky Corn Drink, but had a last minute change of heart and switched to chrysanthemum instead (in the right in the pic below).

Milky corn drink, anyone?


I thought I had beat it....

I really thought I had done it.  I'm pretty young, afterall.  And I've traveled some before...

I thought I had conquered jet lag.  My flight landed on Saturday morning around 8am, and I stayed awake all day Saturday - powering through any urge for a nap.  Took some melatonin Saturday night around 10pm, and woke up on Sunday around 8am.  Ten hours of sleep and feeling springy.  I thought for sure jet lag had passed me by.

Until 3am this morning (late Sunday night).  Some noise in the hallway woke up, and I've been up ever since.  I read a girly romance book.  I did some stretches.  I laid on my back in the dark and counted to 100.  I sent some emails.  All to no avail.  The jet lag got me...... It's now 6:30am, so I might as well be up for good for the day!


Saturday, January 5, 2013

Roses + Hot Pink Taxis

Finally.  In.  Bangkok.

A few minutes after going through immigration, I was wandering down the line of drivers, hotel shuttles, and family members standing and holding signs with different people's names on them.  I saw a sign for "KRISTINA"  and a sign for "Mrs. Frieberg" (I thought both may be looking for my roommate Kristina Freeberg who wasn't planning on landing for another couple hours....), but no signs with anything that remotely looked like "Pyle" on them.

I waited exactly where the Sasin Business School folks told us to.  I almost fell asleep sitting on top of my suitcase.  Since I couldn't turn on my iPhone and pass the time playing Family Fued, I decided to walk up and down the row of people holding signs again.

Then I saw it.  A giant picture of my face on a piece of paper staring right back at me.  Now, I'm not going to lie - anytime there is a mirror within 20 feet of me, I'm going to look at myself.  Bad hair day?  Great hair day?  You always want to know!  Whether or not you like to look at yourself in the mirror multiple times before walking out the door each morning -- seeing a big ole picture of yourself on a sheet of paper in a foreign country is freaky.   It actually scared me for a minute!

I rushed up to the driver from the business school, pointed, and said, "that's me!"   He shook his head, pointing at the picture, then back at me.  He kept shaking his head.  The picture was me back when I was blonde.  And this man was convinced that it was not me.  I still need to come to the realization that no many how many bedtime prayers I say about it, I will never be a natural blonde.....

As I'm sure you can guess, I just had to show the driver my passport for him to believe me.  So, we were off  for downtown Bangkok.

It took a good 45 minutes to get from the airport to the student housing.... and the most exciting part of the drive was discovering that Bangkok has HOT PINK TAXIS.    I'm all for the traditional yellow and black cabs we see all over NYC... very American, after all.   But, it was pretty cool when I then started spotting more hot pink ones, bright blue, neon yellow, coral.....  Whoever's job it is to pick the new taxi cab colors in Bangkok has got it pretty good.

My room at the Sasa House
Riiiight as I was pulling up to the Sasa House (the international student housing right across the street from Sasin), Matt, Carlyn, and Jen (another Kellogg student) were walking down the street the Sasa House is on.  Missed them by 2 minutes!

We ended up meeting up later, and the time at the Sasa house to unpack, check emails, and even catch up with my siblings by texting on the iPad!

Flying for 35 hours realllly gives a woman cankles.  You know, the swollen ankle that just morphs right into a calf?   I had to get out of my jeans and into my gym shorts.  My plan to head to the gym was thwarted by a  knock on the door....

A little lady (standing up straight, she was well below my shoulder) popped her head in the door and handed me a vase.
THANK YOU, GRIFF!

Thank you, Jeff for the amazing flowers!!!!

I still don't know how you figured out (1) how to get flowers delivered in Bangkok  (2)  where I was staying (3)  what room I'm in  (4)  how you timed it so they arrived 30 minutes after I did :)